I read an article the other day where it said people develop their personalities the most during 19-24 years old. Also, during that time is when you are consistently changing. I find this to be very true. And I am going to go off topic right now and say that my H key is not working, I have to slam and I mean SLAM it down to work and I'm becoming very frustrated!!! It's me versus the H key over here. GARR! Stop giving me that look, Reader. I thought you would understand! Anyways, so yeah. I found that article to be very true. I am twenty-one right now and when I think back to last year at this time, I feel like a complete different girl. I've changed in so many ways just in a year and it makes me kind of excited to see where I will be next year, in two years, etc.
So far, a few things I've learned:
So far, a few things I've learned:
- I care more about the little things, not the big things.
- I attach myself to basically e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g.
- I'm insanely sensitive and that is one thing I always will be. This used to bother me, but I'm actually starting to accept it.
- I'm a worrier. Not a warrior. I wanted to make that clear because when I typed worrier it looked really similar to warrior.
- I need to know that I am needed by someone more than me needing to know that I am loved by someone. Does that make sense?
- I can drag my feet before I can be open with somebody and be myself.
- I would rather have a few really good, close friends than a large amount of acquaintances.
- I am painfully socially awkward. It's kind of entertaining actually.This results in many embarrassing stories.
- I prefer nights in with a few friends than wild and crazy nights out. BUT I do like to go out too. (wow, I am sounding really boring ha ha)
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It's really crazy how much you change in those few years. It's actually kind of disorienting!
Oh my gosh, seriously hate it when the keys do that! Drives me insane.
-,- Oh and as you probably know I am with you all the way on the worrier part. ;]
This list sounds a lot like me! I'm 26 though, so I might be stuck being completely socially awkward for forever. Sad day.
This is such a great post. You have really embarked on a fantastic journey... be sure to document it ALL!
what's more fun than being socially awkward?! lulz i know how that is
i loved the warrior/worrier line. and i agree with you about having a few really close, true friends as opposed to having a billion "half-way" friends.
I was where you are over half a lifetime ago Kaleena. I can tell you that if there's anything about yourself you're not comfortable with right now it'll change, with time and experience. The twenties are a massively transitional time and you will probably feel you're a completely different person in a few years. I like the maturity in your attitude.
And yes it makes perfect sense to me that you need to feel needed more than knowing you're loved. I always felt this way and still do.
Love this post, honest people are easier to get to know. :)
Keys not working properly drives me insane.
I've noticed I've changed too :)
It's nice to know that I'm not the same person I was 3 years ago.
We're always changing and it's something we have to accept.
I agree, it'll be interesting to see where we are a few years down the road.
I need to do this too. I don't even know myself anymore, yo.
So true, I changed a lot as well. Still trying to figure out which me is the real me. :)
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